How to ask for a Second Opinion
Second opinions are important and I have mentioned it before. I know many people are apprehensive to ask the doctor for a request or referral. There is a feeling the provider will hold it against them or take it as a slight about their care. Sometime I hear, I trust the provider and I can't be bothered. Other times people are just too overwhelmed and scared by the diagnosis and looming treatments to seek a second opinion.
A decision to get a second opinion is not necessarily a reflection of your distrust or dissatisfaction of a medical professional. I believe it is a way to gather more information, verify the diagnosis and suggested treatment, and to be empowered to have options. It can seem like a huge step to say to the provider, I want a second opinion, especially if you have a good relationship. People ask me how do I say it? Here is what I suggest. Write down what you want to say to the provider before the visit or phone call. Let the provider know you are going to get a consult for a second opinion. You believe it is important before you move forward with treatment so you know your options. Express your appreciation for your relationship and you would like to review with him/her what new information you may discover.
I cannot say 100% the provider will be supportive. More medical professionals are understanding the value of the second opinion. We as empowered patients have been given the opportunity to help train the medical professionals to value the patient who wants a second opinion. I hope it becomes standard of care for providers to suggest a second opinion.
With any major purchase or decision in life, like buying a house or changing a job, we take time to assess options. The same should be for major medical decisions. If there is a window of time to get a second opinion without causing any life threatening problems, I encourage it. It is my belief everyone deserves optimal medical care which includes knowing your options.
Posted by HealthCare Whisperer at 3/23/2010 10:36 AM 
Categories: second opinion, doctor
Tags: medical second opinion provider
Categories: second opinion, doctor
Tags: medical second opinion provider
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